Thursday, June 05, 2008

Tomorrow, Tomorrow

May Winner of book drawing: Alta G. from Texas

Book Drawing: Leave a comment here or email me at and I’ll enter your name for the June book drawing to win a copy of The Stained Glass Pickup.

Coming in September: A Scrapbook of Christmas Firsts
Stories to Warm Your Heart and Tips to Simplify the Holiday
by coauthor Cathy Messecar.
Full color hardback gift book. Check out what others are saying about the book

"Fiddle deedee, I'll worry about that tomorrow," said Scarlett O’Hara, the heroine in Gone With the Wind. On that occasion she shoved her worries to the next calendar day, and she has many present day cousin-procrastinators, including me.

Procrastination means putting off a project until a later date, especially habitually doing so. Delaying decisions, avoiding messy activities or putting off confrontations is as common as sunrise for some folk, but strategists have developed helpful solutions.

Hypnotists claim they can de-procrastinate dawdlers. The Japanese developed psychological methods for dealing with the hesitant. Books and CDs offer self-help. But will habitual delayers follow through by buying the products, and then reading or listening? That’ll probably happen tomorrow, too.

Support groups exist for stallers. I imagine attending a meeting and feeling the warm welcome. "Hello, my name is Cathy, and I’m a procrastinator." These groups actually exist and sponsor preventive programs where the got-it-together folks mentor those lacking initiative.

Written centuries ago, wise Solomon’s advice is still relevant today, "Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all your might"(Ecclesiastes 9:10). The same verse in The Message is, "Whatever turns up, grab it and do it. And heartily!"

God’s system in the natural world is a good pattern to follow. The continual action of spring, summer, fall and winter keeps the earth recycling, aiding it to be more tidy and functional. Nature’s cycle of growth, producing, and rest is worthy of imitation. If any season skipped its timeslot, chaos would reign. Timeliness is important.

Most have experienced sheer joy after confronting a dreaded chore or problem. Cleaning out a garage, un-cluttering a file cabinet or ridding any homestead of debris puts the mind at ease. A more carefree spirit cloaks shoulders when relationships are righted or hard work produces debt reduction.

Tackling slothful habits is commendable. Closet cleaning, e-mail clear-out, house painting, eating healthier foods, exercising — are any of those on tomorrow’s list? Fred Brooks observed, "How does a project get to be a year behind schedule? One day at a time."

Put into practice the advice from Solomon. He said far-sighted folks will tackle tasks at hand. He knew that put-off projects have a built in growth hormone. They loom larger and larger in thought and reality.

Someone said, "At a steady rate, we procrastinate. I’ve only this to say—if tomorrow ever gets here, it’ll be a busy day!" Tomorrow or today? Task accomplished or snowballing frustration? Has anything been shoved to the bottom of the list for way too long? Today is perfect for sticking out your foot and tripping that old enemy Procrastination.


  1. Hi Cathy, I joined CWO this week, and saw your blog listed there.
    I do agree with your post here, that it feels great to stop putting off a project and accomplish something.
    Even weeding my garden, like I did today, makes me very pleased.
    I've still got scoodles of projects waiting in the wings.
    Hi from California, girl.

  2. Anonymous2:32 PM

    Hi!I am the father of two adopted
    young ladies ages, 18 & 21. My girls now live with my ex-wife in New York and I live in Georgia so I rarely get to see them. Although it has been difficult, I am excited about the possibility of visiting with them sometime in July on a Saturday. On that Saturday I will spend the day with with doing whatever their hearts desire!
    I am truly looking forward to that day!
    Needless to say, the passage I read truly touched my heart because it brings back so many memories of 'being' with my girls at an earlier age in their life.

    "The Stained Glass Pickup " reminds of the special bond we men have with our children and the family unit as a whole. It transports us to those memories with wonderful phrase like "sharing a cold glass of cola" with wife and son on hot day.
    Continue exploring the theme(s) of shared experiences & memories!
    Best wishes